What Men Do & Don’t Want From Women

At what point do we distinguish ‘equality’ from ‘difference’? There is a lie that feminism has ruined countless women with, but men know what it is they do and don’t want from a woman.

Author: MGTAT-Reekay

After retiring at the age of 49 from the hamster-wheel existence of the Western lifestyle, I have lived an adventure as a traveling expat in Southeast Asia since 2012. Primarily in the Philippines and Vietnam. My primary Youtube channel (LifeBeyondTheSea) now has over 14 million views and I have done hundreds of consultations online helping men find solutions to their retirement and dating situations. To set up a Facetime consultation use the Facetime tab at the site menu-bar.


  1. I live in the USA Pacific North West, and the concept of femininity is largely unknown. Silver hair, unisex clothes, they’re the new normal. Its beyond sad; its making for a culture, a country, that one has to try very hard to find pride in.

  2. Great words of wisdom, Reekay. For most of my life, I lived a simple lifestyle, with basic comforts. I also suggested, get out from under the blue screen TV. Go walk the beach with your honey, be in nature, etc. I’m not a good tourist, so much. I haved moved a few times around the world, choosing to live amongst the locals in pristine, simple, raw, unhealthy environments getting sick more times than I like. . I prefer people experiences over new environments to visit. You can have both, people and new different places. But my priority has always been people, with some basic comfort.
    When I move, I sell my stuff, but mostly give away to the needy.
    You can have both and your woman will really appreciate a nice home environment, I’ve created.
    I mean Nature is great, but a clean, simple home, with a cheap sound system, big or small screen TV if you want, sharing on the couch, with home cooked great food is a great setting to share with a woman who lives in a rat hole of sorts, with ants galore, and smelly old floor mats. Anotherwords, in her eyes, a SE.Asian lady will really appreciate western like comforts.
    Now that I’m older, in Asia, I’ve decided to dress nicely, have inexpensive car to pick up a lady far away. And my persona is that of a healthier, slim, successful gentleman, as I seek a woman. Sadly, I’ve noticed a trend, that women in Thailand, Cambodia, China, and Vietnam are more conscious of Status,… more now, than I’ve seen in the past.
    Having lived in PI, off and on for months, having white skin is more than enough to attract a woman. PI is easier to hook up with Philipinas/english,… than most other Asian countries. One can live on a small, tight budget, I recommend at least, a small surplus of unused savings of cash built up over time. Don’t live from month to month, have enough to surprise her with an unexpected vacation away from home.

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